Complex indian problem plzz help?

i am an educated , well earning girl, my parents have tought us to be brave, confident and bold. . couse i was earning so i managed to have a good living standerd. i am a good blend od indo western culture, we were living a good modern life.{ by modern i don't mean disco, party type} but just aware of need of time. walking with modern time taking our values in heart. but i got married in a narrow minded rather cheap family what we say {choti soch} type of people. soooooooooo bekword. my husband is a complete opposite of what i am. he has no concern with modern world but thinks he's the best i don't like his nature, any habit of his he is a shock to my dream man. i have got completely opposite.. my dreams were never high but it was too much to bear as a shock.. but still i love my husband, try to do everything to make him happy becouse it's not his mistake that he's not my kind. even he loves me a lot i never let him show what i feel inside.. but now i have lost , wasted my life but i wish atleast my kids [ no kid right now} may live a better life with a good living standerd with good values, sober language. i don't know what should i do. i belive i won't be able to bear it very long. i am affraid that my frustration and disoppointment may not blast like volcano some day please help